Showing posts with label Autism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Autism. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

1, 2, 3 Strikes you're out..

I admit I'm a tiny bit of an over-protective momma..  It's in my blood.  I can't help myself. 

So when Fishing Pole (2nd grade) came home with a field trip slip to a baseball game (during school), I was leary of letting him go.  It's a bus ride about an hour away, going to be crazy busy..  The boy just had 2 surgeries a few months ago..   I have a hard time with all that he's been thru ,letting my guard down and actually trusting someone else with his care.   Eventually , Daddy Chaos & I agreed that he's old enough to speak up if he's having issues and that we should let him go. It doesn't hurt that he was recently cleared by the back dr & had a cardio appt today as well (cleared!).   So I signed the slip to let him go.  Tomorrow..


Yesterday I received a phone call from Dimple's teacher (kindergarten) that she didn't have a permission form for Dimple's to go on the baseball field trip..  Say WHAT?   Apparently K-2 are all going..  And then my peeps, I started to freak out.   No way was I letting the baby go on this field trip too.. I spent days agonizing over whether to let Fishing Pole go w/o me, sorry its simply not going to happen with the youngest.   Thankfully I mentioned it to Daddy Chaos who looked at me like I was crazy and said NO, he's not going.. lol.   

And then I sat trying to figure out how I'd keep him home w/o looking like that crazy mom who won't let her kids go anywhere with out her.  (Yes, I am that mom... but that's beside the point..).  My friend suggested I sign the slip, send it in today and then just call him in sick tomorrow for the trip.. lol.   Might have worked but I have a meeting before school tomorrow to discuss getting Autism added to his IEP and what all that entails (still makes no sense to me that  medical dx of autism isn't enough.. Stupid school systems).  So I have to be there bright and early which means I have to take all the kids with me.. ugh..

Dimples decided to solve it all for me last night when he announced his throat hurt..  Hmm, see he's getting sick, I guess he'll have to stay home.   Then he promptly puked all over my bed.  ugh.   And so he is home today with an icky tummy.  No field trip tomorrow..    Maybe I jinxed him??

Quite honestly, I don't think he would have enjoyed it. Sensory overload.  Too much noise, too many people  and distractions..   At least I'm not lying when I say he's sick now though. lol 







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Friday, March 28, 2014

Playing Catch up- Take 2



So last time , we talked about how Fishing Pole kept me busy with his surgeries.. And is still keeping me busy while he's still on restrictions..

I'm going to try to summarize because we can all tell by now that I am no good at sticking to a plan or this post would have been up last week!

The week following Fishing Pole's surgery was a busy busy week.   On Monday, Dimples had an appt with a Psych to confirm all of our thoughts/fear (pediatrician, us parents, & his teacher).  Dimples was diagnosed with Autism.  Techinically, Asperger's syndrome but as "they" are soon to be doing away with that term and just incorporating it all under the Autism Spectrum Disorder umbrella, we'll just say high functioning Autism.   In the future, I may refer to it either way.   :sigh:.  This is a diagnosis that we've felt was coming for years now.  He has so many classic autistic symptoms, I'm surprised it took this long to get it.   FYI- if you want to incorporate an autism dx into your IEP (currently has a speech IEP), the school (at least ours) states that they do not recognize a doctor's diagnosis of Autism..  WTF?  I can feel a new fight coming on..

On Wednesday, Southern Darlin' had an MRI scheduled for her Brain.. Just to recheck the cysts we'd found there the previous year.   With some great Momma conning, I was able to get them to fit Dimples in for his MRI at the same time (to check for tethered spinal cord).  I do love our Children's hospital in that they always try to accommodate if they can.

Since both kids were being sedated, Daddy Chaos took off work and came along. We split up , I went with Dimples, Daddy went with Southern Darlin'.   In reality, Dimples went back a few minutes prior to Southern Darlin' so I was able to be with each of them as they drifted off to sleep.  Our hospital uses general anesthesia for MRIs vs iv sedation.   Probably a good thing since Southern Darlin' was getting a brain & full spine MRI which lasted 4.5hours.  ugh.
S.D. still doped up from the MRI :)
Dimples making a silly face.. Showing off Ducky Monkey's gown that the nurses made..


Both kiddos did great and then we were off to Southern Darlin's neurosurgery appt.  I LOVE our neurosurgeon.  She did both of Fishing Pole's back surgeries and is very personable.

Good news- Southern Darlin originally had 2 small cysts in her brain.. The smallest one has disappeared completely! Woohoo!  The other one, the one we worried more about, has shrunk just a teeny tiny bit.  Woohoo!!  The Dr was thrilled to pieces!!!  We are free from MRI's for a few years now, she does want to recheck again during puberty to make sure nothing starts growing.   Awesome appointment!!

Since we were there, the Dr asked how Fishing Pole was doing (remember this is 1 week post surgery) and I mentioned that Dimples just had his MRI done to check for tethered cord as well.. She immediately said, let me just go check on that for you..  She came back a few minutes later and we just turned our appointment into one for Dimples as well.   Yes, he most definitely had tethered cord as well.  ugh.   We knew this was probably coming but it's still not fun.   Our Dr is amazing (have I mentioned that yet) and we went right into discussing surgery options ect.  She decided since Fishing Pole had retethered and she had to go higher up for the second surgery, she would like to just go at the higher spot to start with for Dimples and hope that he wouldn't retether..   We walked out to schedule surgery..

Imagine our surprise when she had room the FOLLOWING week!!  Egads!!  We opted to go ahead and get it done. Hoping that the sooner it was done, the less likely chance he'd have of long term issues like FIshing Pole..

Surgery went well for Dimples.  He is most definitely NOT his brother when it comes to surgery/pain.  While Fishing Pole had to be repeatedly told to calm down, walk carefully, ect.. Dimples had us carry him everywhere for about a week.  He was only in the hospital 2 days, thank goodness .. Immediately upon waking up from surgery , he wanted to GO HOME..He does not do well with strange people & places.. :(   Hello Autism, thank you so much... 


It's been several weeks since the boys both had surgeries.  While they are still on restrictions, they are doing better every day.   We have noticed a decline in Dimples at school. His teacher described him as "delayed" thinking he was on pain meds that were fogging his mind but alas, he's been off all meds for a while.. :sigh:


On a completely happier note..  We celebrated birthdays of 2 of the 3 boys!   Fishing Pole turned 8!! and  Attitude King turned 16!!!   It's hard to imagine that they have both grown so much!  Makes a Momma a bit sad seeing all her kiddos growing up :(

Stop growing already !!





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Unlocking the Social Potential in #Autism



Unlocking the Social Potential

Hi guys.  I wanted to share this with my other special needs mom.  I haven't had a chance to read this one yet but it is on my TBR list!!  Having a child who was recently diagnosed on the spectrum, I'm reading all I can.


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To your dismay, your child has received a diagnosis of autism. Along with this alarming news comes the barrage of emotions that suffocates you like an avalanche— denial—confusion—depression—guilt. You want to fix your child; you have a million questions; and you want answers immediately. Autism is a journey in which the child and her family navigate challenges and experience achievements along the way. To guide you in this rewarding journey, Dr. Karina Poirier offers her expertise in this book that parents will find incredibly useful. In this book, you will find the answers you’ve desperately been seeking. Dr. Poirier has provided in simple, easy to comprehend language, an overview of child development, a descriptive explanation of how autism affects each developmental area, and guidelines for advancing your child’s functioning in all developmental domains. You will appreciate the multitude of hands-on, full-color sample lessons for teaching social and emotional skills, language, problem-solving and decision making, and play skills to children with autism.

 Publisher: Social Cognition Publications | Irvine, CA
Color: Full-color illustrations
Pages: 300  
ISBN (Print): 9780988798205
ISBN (Digital): 9780988798212

 Available: March 2014
Available at: http://www.socialcognitionpublications.com/

Improving social and communication skills in children with autism

Dr. Karina Poirier, author of Unlocking the Social Potential in Autism, says that understanding a child’s unique needs is the key step to dealing with concerns and developing their strengths. “Bring everything into the light. The worst thing you can do,” she said, “is to ignore the issue. Parents can help their children learn how to communicate better and develop social skills that will help them thrive later in life. Get help early, identify the specific issues you are facing, ask questions, learn everything you can, and devise a concrete and detailed strategy for engaging your child so key skills are developed and strengthened”.

Here are her answers to some key concerns that parents of a child with autism are faced with.

Q: My child can sit through a learning task on the iPad or television; however, he becomes restless and fidgety when working with a teacher. Why?  
A: Your child’s attention system is reactive. Consider how much children learn from viewing television. Teachers struggle to get children’s attention when an activity does not include the sensory kaleidoscope children are used to receiving when sitting in front of the television.  
Key Action: Children must be taught at an early age how to develop the mental tools (attend, remember, think) to engage in deliberate and self-directed learning experiences with an adult’s guidance.  

Q: My child does not respond appropriately to mood changes in others (e.g., when a peer’s mood changes from happiness to distress). Why?
 A: Your child may be lacking the ability to read nonverbal cues. Children with autism often have impaired ability to read, interpret, and process social and emotional messages. Children who are unaware of others’ thoughts and feelings risk not developing the sense of self.  
Key Action: Treatment to teach the child the emotional codes that are part of the social experience. The child needs to develop the ability to understand other peoples’ emotions from their facial expression, tone of voice, and body posture. The child should be taught to recognize and interpret how people around him think and feel.  

Q: My child has difficulty with describing his/her day at school, recounting an experience, or relaying a message. Why?  
A: Delayed recall skills utilize episodic memory. Episodic memory allows us to remember past events and share these events with others. In other words, it is how we engage in reciprocal conversations with others. Episodic memory produces a conscious awareness of events that have occurred at any one time; it enables people to remember what happened to them in the past or to conceive the future.  
Key Action: Effective treatment is required for the child to learn about memory strategies and to practice remembering. Through repetition, the child develops not only better recall of past events, but also the skills to communicate the memory of the event to peers or adults during a conversation.  

Q: My child is verbal and has good command of language; however, he has trouble initiating conversation with others and taking turns during a conversation. Why?  
A: Children with autism have difficulties in social initiation and social-emotional understanding. Engaging in a reciprocal conversation with others requires the development and interaction of memory, information processing, and expressive communication skills—all of which are pervasive deficits of children with autism. It is not that these children do not desire involvement with their peers. On the contrary, they do have the desire to be socially engaged with others; however, the dilemma lies in the fact that these children lack knowledge of social norms.
 Key Action: Effective treatment that emphasizes social norms and rules, and teaches children how to process social information by distinguishing between relevant and irrelevant information in a social situation. Initiating and maintaining a conversation requires a person to have social knowledge, which is knowledge of event schemas.

 Q: How much play time is appropriate to include in my child’s learning routine?  
A: For a young child, teaching through play is extremely important. Play gives children something to do with their ample free time; it also serves the important purpose of honing children’s physical, social and emotional development. Play does not occur spontaneously in children with autism the way it does for typical children.  
Key Action: Investing significant time teaching through play focuses the child on developing fine and gross motor skills, interpreting the social cues of other children and adults, and responding to those social cues appropriately. Play can be used to develop the ability to interact with, explore, and, ultimately master their surroundings. Play is an essential part of the learning process, and its ability to mimic real-life scenarios makes it an ideal way to stimulate overall development.

Karina Poirier, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Karina Poirier is the Director of the Center for Social Cognition , a board certified behavior analyst at the doc-toral level (BCBA-D), and a certified cognitive educational therapist. Her clinical practice is devoted to providing outstanding individuals and group therapy that improves social and cognitive outcomes for individuals with autism, ADHD, Traumatic Brain Injury, and related disorders. Learn more at www.drkarinapoirier.com.

ONLINE RESOURCES

http://www.drkarinapoirier.com http://www.facebook.com/CenterforSocialCognition http://www.twitter.com/SocialCognition https://plus.google.com/+Centerforsocialcognition/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2hZCpP_TDdGzWxrREAbJ4w  


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